Find Your Happiness Factor

How to Change Your Frustration into Success

What is not working in your life? Are you frustrated with not making any apparent progress? Would you like to take charge of your life and change it for the better once and for all?

You can change your frustration into a productive and successful life. A good place to start is to realize that you create everything in your life, often to teach yourself a lesson or to show you that some aspect of your belief system needs to change. Self change begins with accepting total responsibility for who you are and how you show up in life.

Why Do You Think It Is Hard to Make Money? Part Two.

If you think it is hard to make money, chances are that you have not understood just how to get your life to flow in an optimum way. Life works according to set laws, laws of empowerment, not necessarily of restriction. Life works as a system; its evolutionary compulsion is toward coherence and growth: catch the right train and you will find yourself at your chosen destination.

But catching the right kind of train in your life is a skill, a science, and this is the subject of our discussion. Basically life works according to a set of laws that lead, step by step, to greater growth and empowerment. These steps flow in this sequence: BE, FEEL, THINK, DO and HAVE. Let us explore this flow in more detail.

Love – A Contract for Life, Renewable Daily

We have all heard of a love contract. This is a contract to which two people swear with the intention of both committing and compelling each party in the relationship to be loyal to the other. The contract is binding regardless of changing feelings, intervening circumstances, divergent personal development directions, and a host of other challenges life tends to present.

Marriage is such a contract. Out-of-marriage contract agreements may or may not be just as binding, but may also carry a condition like: renewable periodically, or some such clause. But can any kind of contract determine the long-term 
viability of a relationship?

Playing in the Quantum Field

We play in a Quantum Field of probable and possible realities. Studies from many sciences, including quantum physics, para-psychology, spiritual experience, consciousness studies conducted by many military programs around the world, healing modalities and many more, continue to investigate and delve deeper into what is commonly called the Quantum Field. This is an energy field of potentiality that connects all living things across space and time and even beyond. It is a level of creation at which we are all one and from which we can draw to create new and different realities in our own life and in our shared common future.

From Vision to Manifestation

Do you have a vision? Do you have a dream for your life that you want to experience more than anything else in the whole world? You must first formulate it in your mind, and then pursue it with all your heart. Not with a fever pitch of activity but with quiet assurance and gratitude. Realize that what you want to experience being, feeling, doing, relating to, and having, is created in your mind first, and only then will it become your experience. Physical experience is always a manifestation of a non-physical cause. Always.

Intuition and Energy

What is intuition? Intuition is each person’s inner holistic guidance system; it is innate in each of us. It operates outside our immediate conscious awareness, beyond the circumference of our focused attention. Intuition appears to have our best interests at heart. It alerts us beforehand to likely outcomes and offers choices for our happier experience.

What is this information that our intuition interprets?

Our Bio-Energy Auric Field

We have known for decades, through scientific evidence such as Kirlian photography, of the existence of the human aura. Another name for this aura is the electro magnetic energy field surrounding the physical body. Many psychics can see this swirling, multi-colored energetic emanation quite clearly, and you can too, if you practise sensing it with your inner sight.

The Truth About Depression Part 1

Depression is one of the most common emotional disorders. We all suffer touches of it from time to time; it is part of the ebb and flow of our emotional life. So what is depression, what causes it, what triggers it and how can we overcome depression when it rears its ugly head in our life experience?

True Love or Life-Raft Love?

Today let's talk about relationships. Each Sunday I settle down to scan the paper over my morning beverage and inevitably this question comes up. People find more conflict in their relationships than pleasure, peace and joy. Why is that? Why do we eventually grieve more than rejoice over our close relationships? The answer may be as complex or as simple as you wish, but the way I see it, we can cut to the core of the issue and find a fundamental answer rather quickly.

Every human being on this planet has a fundamental desire for fulfillment and true love. We each know at a deep, mostly unconscious level, that as we are, we do not fulfill our primary purpose; we yearn for more, to be more, without even knowing what it is we yearn for.

Unfortunately, most humans search for fulfillment outside of themselves, often in a close personal relationship. They turn to another to assuage their neediness, to fill the empty gaps they feel within. They turn to their lover in their unconscious neediness and demand that other buoy them up, make them feel good and then they expect the other to continue playing that role always. But in seeking fulfillment outside of their own inner self, in another or in external events, they will never assuage their yearning to be more than they are. It simply does not work that way.

There is an urge, a deep seated yearning within the human psyche, that we call the Existential Imperative. This is indeed an imperative, an urge, because it leads us to discovering Who we are, Where we came from, Where we are going and how we can feel whole again.

Be prepared for a wonderful discovery, my friend, for we are each a spark of Divine Life, we are, in essence, pure Love, perfect Beauty, eternal and all-powerful Source Energy.
Nothing exists outside of Source Energy, only within It and therefore of It.

But in order to become human, we have accepted to forget that we are Source Essence. We have taken on the burden of layers of forgetfulness, as it were, that allow us to experience the highs and lows of returning Home, of rediscovering who we are, of clearing away each layer of forgetfulness, one by one, until we eventually experience ourselves as divine Source Energy again. This is our ultimate quest as humans, to rediscover our true nature and identity; to BE once more, All-That-Is, to return Home.

Until we wake up to this Existential Imperative, until we seek life and goodness and love within our own heart, we will never feel satisfied or complete. And herein lies the relationship conundrum. I love you because you make me feel so good and I love these feelings I have when you are near me, but don't expect too much from me because I need you more than you need me.

This kind of relationship, characteristically based on infatuation and neediness, disguised as romantic love, will inevitably grow stale. One partner will change and the other will not, or each partner will change and the gap will widen between them. Then the whole game plan begins to go awry.

If your passion is based on how you fill each others insecurity, longing or neediness, it will prove to be more like life-raft passion rather than true and authentic love.

So seek and discover true love within yourself first, if you want your outer love life to flourish. Seek fulfillment and sustainable happiness in yourself first, then, for the sheer delight and joy of the experience, and only then, share your love with your special lover. The more whole and happy you feel, the more valuable will your sharing of love be for the other. Never rely on anyone else to make you feel complete. You will meet with disappointment and sadness if you do.

You will never find true happiness outside of yourself, only from within, in uncovering and experiencing your Essence Identity. Your happiness lies in discovering Who you are; in breaking through the illusions of forgetfulness that blind you to Who you are. Find and nurture this ultimate relationship, that of your inner relationship with your Self. Live the Love you are, be the Love you are, and then, but only then, share this Love with your lover.

You Create Your Experience

If you want to experience a different future, change what you believe about who you are right now. What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. – Oliver Wendall Holmes.   

You have to be the person you want become to attract the life you truly desire. In other words, if you don’t change your thinking, nothing else in your life will change either.  But if you muster up the courage to make the changes in yourself that you need to make, your life will change forever.