Find Your Happiness Factor

Love – A Contract for Life, Renewable Daily

We have all heard of a love contract. This is a contract to which two people swear with the intention of both committing and compelling each party in the relationship to be loyal to the other. The contract is binding regardless of changing feelings, intervening circumstances, divergent personal development directions, and a host of other challenges life tends to present.

Marriage is such a contract. Out-of-marriage contract agreements may or may not be just as binding, but may also carry a condition like: renewable periodically, or some such clause. But can any kind of contract determine the long-term 
viability of a relationship?

Stuck In Your Relationship?

Let’s focus on boosting the happiness factor in your romantic relationship. If you can manage to create balance, fun, understanding, patience and above all, love, in your romantic relationship, you will open your door to happiness quite a bit more.

On the Internet, relationship advice is highly sought after. Why? Because most of us are at a loss from time to time as to how the other gender thinks and what in the world motivates them. In the following article you will find some good sound advice that will leave you relaxed and happy in your relationship if you take it on board.

Soul Mate Loving

Soul mate loving is about finding as many ways as possible to infuse your body, mind, heart and spirit with love and joy, and then sharing that love and joy intimately with another. We all seek love because love brings happiness. And happiness is a fundamental purpose of living. We yearn for love – to give love and to be loved. But are we daring enough to actually receive love? To be open enough to receive the gift of love, and to believe we are worthy of receiving love, can be quite a challenge for many people.

To exchange unconditional love with another, in particular a spouse or life partner, calls for a level of self acceptance, openness and trust that, frankly, most are not willing to allow. The term soul-mate signifies and indeed demands communication and union of two people. To connect with a soul mate demands complete trust and self exposure at many levels – physically, yes, but more significantly, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

Spiritual Dimension of Sexuality

There is a spiritual dimension to sex and sexuality, as indeed there is to every aspect of human life. Understanding the power of this spirituality and intentionally embracing it can only escalate the richness of our sexual experience.

Many single women and men who are celibate, see their sexuality as an holistic spiritual power source, as indeed it is. They may sublimate their sexuality and express it through creative art, music, home life, loving family, pets, charity work, social networks and sport. Engaging their sexual energy in these diverse ways, they create an ever richer, more intense creative experience, which is an essential element of sexuality. Whether celibate or not, we can all discover this expanding holistic spiritual experience of our sexuality which gives light and joy to every aspect of life.

Relationship Ebb and Flow

Relationships aren't supposed to be boring, difficult, or distant. They're supposed to be peaceful, rewarding, and fun! If your relationship with your lover has turned a little chilly, lost its excitement or is now just plain boring, when did it begin to lose its spunk?

Can you find the moment, the one point in time that turned the tide from flowing in, to flowing out and away, and away and yet further away from your relationship? Maybe your relationship with your partner just gradually lost its sparkle over time, stressed by the demands made on you by children, business, finances, diverging interests or just by the sheer boredom of familiarity.

All our relationships, as too, our business success, sporting prowess and flow of life generally, begin as a thought in our mind. Remember when you first fell in love with your partner; you thought of them day in, day out.

Rise of the Feminine Woman

What do women really want? The answer is quite simple: to have a definitive say in their life, and to regain their self esteem sufficient enough to self govern and freely express their irrepressible love, joy and nurturing qualities.

For thousands of years women have surrendered their power to men. This has become so ingrained in the female psyche that women in most cultures around the world see themselves as second class citizens, and actually believe it is divinely decreed that they subjugate themselves to male dominance. Some male dominated religions as well as political regimes still enforce this belief under pain of drastic sanctions for non compliance.