Find Your Happiness Factor

Why Do You Think It Is Hard to Make Money? Part One.

Why do you think it is hard to make money? Do you also think it is difficult to have a deep and loving relationship? What about friends? Do you find it easy or difficult to surround yourself with a few good friends, people who love you? How is your life flowing, just as you want it to?

These are questions worth searching into more deeply.  For most of us, we will have to admit that life could indeed improve in most of these aspects.  Why is that?  The answer is actually simple; the resolution to the problem, easy – once you know how.

Love – A Contract for Life, Renewable Daily

We have all heard of a love contract. This is a contract to which two people swear with the intention of both committing and compelling each party in the relationship to be loyal to the other. The contract is binding regardless of changing feelings, intervening circumstances, divergent personal development directions, and a host of other challenges life tends to present.

Marriage is such a contract. Out-of-marriage contract agreements may or may not be just as binding, but may also carry a condition like: renewable periodically, or some such clause. But can any kind of contract determine the long-term 
viability of a relationship?

New Beginnings of Our Happy Future

We have much for which to be grateful, so very, very grateful, as this New Year ushers in a new decade. Whatever we decide our future will be, it WILL BE. And whatever we choose to be, WE WILL BE. So let us make these intense times a pivotal point in our own individual evolution and choose to become all that we CAN BE.

Life is changing. Life will never again be for us as it was in the past. We are now creating our personal and collective future every single moment of every single day. Our true challenge is to REALIZE that we are creators of our future and that we are so most effectively when we live with full conscious awareness, in the Now, the Present Moment.

Playing in the Quantum Field

We play in a Quantum Field of probable and possible realities. Studies from many sciences, including quantum physics, para-psychology, spiritual experience, consciousness studies conducted by many military programs around the world, healing modalities and many more, continue to investigate and delve deeper into what is commonly called the Quantum Field. This is an energy field of potentiality that connects all living things across space and time and even beyond. It is a level of creation at which we are all one and from which we can draw to create new and different realities in our own life and in our shared common future.

For Goodness Sake Be Happy

What does it take to be happy? In fact, how do we define happiness? The definitions are possibly as many and as varied as there people on this beautiful planet. But I think it may first be easier to take a look at what happiness is not.

We tend to hang on to the security that comes with our familiar but negative programming and beliefs.  But what would happen if we decided to ditch this negative programming and become someone very different from who we have been up till now? For goodness sake, why don’t we simply decide to be happy? Just BE happy!

How to Be Happy

The ways to a happy present are the qualities of your happy future self. Work that one out and your life will change wonderfully. You will instantly see that you are actually creating your future right now, today. The happy future of which you dream is rooted in the joy and confidence you feel at this moment. You really do create your reality, thought by thought; feeling by feeling; belief by belief and dream by focussed dream.

You can choose to create your happy future with conscious intention: where you are creative, powerful, worthy and filled with love/joy. So just how do you create happiness with conscious intent? This is an excellent question and is now the focus of our study.

Communicating with Children and Family

Communicating with our children and family is about relating in love, one on one, with each individual member of that family. From one point of view, we don’t choose our family of origin. From a higher perspective, we do. We choose our parents and our family; we choose those who will help us develop our character and values, and we do so for the challenge such education will offer us in our life journey.

Just as we have chosen, at a soul level, our parents and family, so have our children! We, as parents, may well take this opportunity to make sure we offer the best values and life opportunities we possibly can for our children. We can start by opening wide the lines of communication with our children and family members.

Soul Mate Loving

Soul mate loving is about finding as many ways as possible to infuse your body, mind, heart and spirit with love and joy, and then sharing that love and joy intimately with another. We all seek love because love brings happiness. And happiness is a fundamental purpose of living. We yearn for love – to give love and to be loved. But are we daring enough to actually receive love? To be open enough to receive the gift of love, and to believe we are worthy of receiving love, can be quite a challenge for many people.

To exchange unconditional love with another, in particular a spouse or life partner, calls for a level of self acceptance, openness and trust that, frankly, most are not willing to allow. The term soul-mate signifies and indeed demands communication and union of two people. To connect with a soul mate demands complete trust and self exposure at many levels – physically, yes, but more significantly, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

How to Find Happiness

The best way to find happiness is to BE happiness. Happiness is not to be found outside of you; it is not something you have to find at all, because it is inherent to your very nature. To the extent you are connected in awareness to your inner life, your essential nature as a human being made in the image of your creator, you have access to happiness. In short, happiness is a state of being and you experience happiness through awareness of your Essence.

Spiritual Dimension of Sexuality

There is a spiritual dimension to sex and sexuality, as indeed there is to every aspect of human life. Understanding the power of this spirituality and intentionally embracing it can only escalate the richness of our sexual experience.

Many single women and men who are celibate, see their sexuality as an holistic spiritual power source, as indeed it is. They may sublimate their sexuality and express it through creative art, music, home life, loving family, pets, charity work, social networks and sport. Engaging their sexual energy in these diverse ways, they create an ever richer, more intense creative experience, which is an essential element of sexuality. Whether celibate or not, we can all discover this expanding holistic spiritual experience of our sexuality which gives light and joy to every aspect of life.